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Tuesday, November 03, 2009

I'm so thankful for everyone in my life who have helped me get through my darkest days. This lil phoenix is done shedding her feathers & rebuilding herself - it's time to take flight and soar. Everything is falling into place and I'm feeling more at peace with my life. For the first time in months, I can sleep well and feel truly happy. I dedicate this song to everyone who walked with me, got lost with me, helped me see my true self-worth/potential, lifted me up from rock bottom, and showed me that I'm not alone. Thank you.

"Lost" by Michael Buble

I can't believe it's over
I watched the whole thing fall
And I never saw the writing that was on the wall
If I'd only knew
The days were slipping past
That the good things never last
That you were crying

Summer turned to winter
And the snow it turned to rain
And the rain turned into tears upon your face
I hardly recognized the girl you are today
And god I hope it's not too late
It's not too late

'Cause you are not alone
I'm always there with you
And we'll get lost together
Till the light comes pouring through
'Cause when you feel like you're done
And the darkness has won
Babe, you're not lost
When your world's crashing down
And you can't bear the thought
I said, babe, you're not lost

Life can show no mercy
It can tear your soul apart
It can make you feel like you've gone crazy
But you're not
Things have seem to changed
There's one thing that's still the same
In my heart you have remained
And we can fly fly fly away

'Cause you are not alone
And I am there with you
And we'll get lost together
Till the light comes pouring through
'Cause when you feel like you're done
And the darkness has won
Babe, you're not lost
When the world's crashing down
And you can not bear the cross
I said, baby, you're not lost
I said, baby, you're not lost
I said, baby, you're not lost
I said, baby, you're not lost


Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Sometimes goodbye is a second chance... to start over, to do things you weren't able to do before, to spread your wings and soar, to test your limits and learn about yourself, and to change your path in life and chase new dreams... this is my chance and I'm taking it - no regrets and no looking back.  Thank you for the memories.

Second Chance
Songwriters: Bassett, Dave Richard; Smith, Brent;

My eyes are open wide
By the way I made it through the day
I watch the world outside
By the way I'm leaving out today

I just saw Haley's Comet, she waved
Said, "Why are you always running in place?"
Even the man in the moon disappeared
Somewhere in the stratosphere

Tell my mother, tell my father I've done the best I can
To make them realize this is my life, I hope they understand
I'm not angry, I'm just saying
Sometimes goodbye is a second chance

Please don't cry one tear for me
I'm not afraid of what I have to say
This is my one and only voice
So listen close, it's only for today

I just saw Haley's Comet, she waved
Said, "Why are you always running in place?"
Even the man in the moon disappeared
Somewhere in the stratosphere"

Tell my mother, tell my father I've done the best I can
To make them realize this is my life, I hope they understand
I'm not angry, I'm just saying
Sometimes goodbye is a second chance

Here is my chance
This is my chance

Tell my mother, tell my father I've done the best I can
To make them realize this is my life, I hope they understand
I'm not angry, I'm just saying
Sometimes goodbye is a second chance
Sometimes goodbye is a second chance
Sometimes goodbye is a second chance


Saturday, May 16, 2009

If someone can't love you the way you want/need to be loved, is that a deal breaker?  Just watched SATC and Carrie brought up this topic... Big couldn't love her the way she wanted to be loved, but yet she's willing to stay with him... but as we all know, they ended up breaking up several times before he learned to love her the way she needed to be loved.  Do we all go through this same cycle?  Why?


Friday, May 01, 2009

Wow has it really been 7 months since my last post?  So much has happened in the last 7 months that I don't really know how to recap it all.  I've had my ups and downs, but I won't complain because I know there are people stuck in worse situations.  At least I still have a job and I'm able to save some money while still being able to travel and do the things that I want to do.  Of course, I would've loved to get a raise or promotion (which comes with a raise anyway) and be able to save enough for a house by next year... but that's in a utopian world where we're not facing a financial crisis and people aren't getting laid off.  Other than that, life is just fine and dandy.

I started this post thinking I had a lot to say but I really don't... I'm just glad to have the people I care about in my life and most of the people I know are doing well.  For those who are going through tough times, just know that I'm there for you and wish you all the best - I'm sending good karma your way.  I just wanted to remind everyone to smile and keep your head up - your confidence and positive energy will show through and will reflect back on you. 


Wednesday, October 01, 2008

For those who think that this financial crisis is Wall Street's problem and that the big corporations should pay for their greed - read this article.  It sucks that we have to pay for other people's mistakes, but consider the alternative... We could be paying an even higher price if we don't help them out.  It's not the best solution, but it's the better of the 2 evils.  Enjoy this article that can better articulate the point I'm trying to make:

This isn't just a Wall Street bailout!

Angry voters led the House to reject the rescue plan. But Monday's selloff and more turmoil in the credit markets show that a bailout is good for Main Street.

By Paul R. La Monica, CNNMoney.com editor at large

NEW YORK (CNNMoney.com) -- The backlash against the bailout worked. The House rejected the controversial $700 billion rescue plan on Monday.

But considering that the Dow plummeted nearly 800 points - its worst one-day point drop in history - will there now be a backlash against the backlash?

"Many of the folks writing their congressmen last week to say they were against the plan may have looked at their 401(k)s this morning and are rethinking their position," said Bill Knapp, investment strategist with MainStay Investments, an asset manager based in New York.

Sure, stocks rebounded a bit Tuesday. But make no mistake. If Congress doesn't come up with some new plan to address this credit crisis, we could be faced with more gut-churning market drops.

I stated last week why I thought the bailout was a necessary evil and I still feel that way.

I understand why people are angry. I'm angry. I am not happy that the government is in this position because of reckless behavior by banking executives, investors, lax regulation by the government and, yes, even consumers.

And I even can concede that there is a lot of merit to the claims by critics that we should let the market sort out the country's credit problems. In free markets, companies should be allowed to fail. And clearly, the market and government let Lehman Brothers fail.

However, in the wake of the Lehman bankruptcy, things just got worse and more dominos fell ... AIG, Washington Mutual, Wachovia, etc.

The crisis is now so pronounced that doing nothing is not really a viable option. And what infuriates me to no end is the refusal by some members of Congress and taxpayers to recognize that the consequences of doing nothing will mean more economic hardship for all Americans, not just bank CEOs, traders and New York City.

Let Wall Street burn. Let Wall Street die. Let Wall Street go bankrupt. That's what people opposed to the bailout are saying over and over.

Don't get me wrong. Wall Street deserves a lot of the blame for the mortgage mess. But it's overly simplistic and flat-out wrong to suggest that this is just a New York or Wall Street problem.

There are a lot of companies that have either already collapsed or are nearing the precipice of failure as a result of the credit crunch ... and many of them are located far from lower Manhattan. That means many jobs are on the line and they aren't just the jobs of traders, blue-blood investment bankers and CEOs.

Washington Mutual (WM, Fortune 500), which became the largest bank to fail in history last week, is based in Seattle and has more than 2200 branches across 15 states. Wachovia (WB, Fortune 500), which dumped its banking assets to Citigroup (C, Fortune 500) in a fire sale Monday, is headquartered in Charlotte, N.C.

National City (NCC, Fortune 500), which many investors are betting could be the next bank to go under, is based in Cleveland. Shares of two other big Ohio banks - Cleveland's KeyCorp (KEY, Fortune 500) and Cincinnati-based Fifth Third (FITB, Fortune 500) - also got pummeled Monday.

SunTrust (STI, Fortune 500), which lost nearly a quarter of its value Monday, is an Atlanta institution. Regions Financial (RF, Fortune 500) plummeted more than 40% on Monday. That bank is based in Birmingham, Ala.

A bank bailout plan of some sort might not stop other banks from going under but it could certainly help minimize the pain in the industry.

"If we had a bailout, it would lessen the likelihood of further bank failures. We may have some more down the pipeline but we would have less with a bailout," said Robert Dye, senior economist for PNC Financial Services Group in Pittsburgh.

If more banks get scooped up by larger rivals or just flat-out go under, that could lead to more job losses in the financial industry. That's not good news for the broader economy.

Fears about more bank collapses have also led to chaos in the credit markets as banks are afraid to lend to each other, which makes them less willing to extend credit to businesses. That, eventually, will be felt by consumers.

"The core of the problem is with credit markets, which is one step removed from Main Street. The average guy and gal is not seeing this yet but if you are a business, you are facing highly elevated costs to borrow money," Dye said.

"And Main Street will definitely feel this eventually. We'll also see higher rates for credit cards and other consumer loans. The cost of credit will rise dramatically," Dye added.

Dye also said that if more businesses start to feel a major cash pinch, they are very likely to cut back on hiring and may even start to layoff workers.

That would add to the this year's 600,000 job losses. In turn, that could intensify the economic slowdown by causing sharp pullbacks in consumer spending.

On top of all that, the current stock market chaos does nobody any good.

I'm not trying to cheerlead the market higher. Many stocks, particularly in the banking sector, should be trading much lower.

But the credit crisis has spilled over into the broader market, hitting shares of many quality companies that are still financially healthy. As a result, $1.2 trillion in stock market value was wiped out in the wake of Monday's sell-off.

That's bad news for more than just hedge fund managers - it hurts the millions of Americans that actively manage their investment portfolios as well as the millions more who have 401(k)s or IRAs for retirement as well as 529 plans to save for their kids' college tuition.

"It's easy to point the finger at the credit crunch being just a Wall Street problem. But it's much more pervasive than that so that's why it's imperative that this be addressed," said Knapp, the investment expert. "If a rescue plan doesn't pass we will see markets sell off further."

Dye agreed. He said the biggest problem with the bailout is that it would in some fashion, allow some companies off the hook for egregiously bad decisions. Nobody is happy about that.

But doing nothing just so that Wall Street can suffer is not the answer either.

"People don't want to reward bad behavior. But we don't want to cut off our nose to spite our face here," Dye said. "This will hurt Main Street very quickly."



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